The first threesome with my wife

My wife and I have been married for several years and our relationship has never been cold. Our personalities differ from each other, but it is also the factor that makes our relationship sparkle throughout all these years. Before I was married, I was quite an experienced swinger. I had many tinder threesome in my life. Some of them were with swinger couples and some with current girlfriend and another person. However, I have never tried it with my wife. She was a conventional woman. She can’t even talk dirty to me. It is just not something in her bone. I love her and I accept all her habits and preferences, even if it means I have to give up some of mine to be with her. I would love to do that. Therefore, we never had threesomes together.

However, that does not mean I can’t even try to persuade her into that. Therefore, in the past few years, I have been trying to get her know more and get familiar with threesome. She is also on the way of being more open and direct. But couples dating is just something she cannot accept. In her mind, love is absolutely selfish. She cannot accept seeing me with another girl and she cannot also bare herself with another man.

Last weekend, we hired a painter to paint our bedroom. We have been living here for years and we both felt like to make some changes. The painter came in the morning when we were still sleeping. My wife got up and opened the door for him. Then she came back to me and said the painter was a total catch. We dressed ourselves and went to the living room to make room for him. As he was doing his job, I grabbed a paper and started to read. My wife brought me a glass of milk and sit on my lap trying to read the paper with me.

I was suddenly turned on by the move. She dressed her braces skirt, so thin and transparent that I could even see her entire body from it. I fooled around with her, kissed her neck and touched her private part. She tried to prevent me from doing that, but I could see that she was also turned on. So I moved further. Just right when we were almost naked, the painter came downstairs and saw us. It was very awkward at first and then my wife grabbed my neck and said “do you want to have a threesome?” “Right now?” I said. She nodded. She and I looked at the painter. He didn’t wear any clothes on the top. He even had a few oil paints on her body and face. My wife asked “would you like to join us?”

He came to us and took off his pants and joined us for a wild swinger lifestyle. It was totally out of my expectation, even thought I thought our first threesome would be with a girl, but I think after that, it will come eventually.

Giving my friend a wedding present---threesome

I was an experienced swinger. I can’t remember how many threesomes I had in my life. It is a lot. I think being in a swinger lifestyle is just the way I live. I couldn’t picture my life without it and I won’t hide it. There is nothing to hide. I live being out in the open. That is the reason I kept getting connected with other swinger couples and singles. I never come to tinder for threesome dating apps to find them. Instead, they come to find me. That saved me a lot of trouble.

I am very delighted to say that I am the mentor for swinger lifestyle for many people. Some of them are my friends and colleagues. When we are together, I would tell them sorts of stories about my tinder threesome experiences. Many people find them appealing and decide to try for their own. I had a colleague who were totally intrigued by my experiences. However, she had a stubborn colleague who refused to her proposal every time. She tried every method I told her, including telling him my experiences to turn him on, watching threesome porn and erotic movies together, etc. He just didn’t change his mind at all. You know when you want something so bad and someone just don’t give it to you, you would become very treacherous and you would want it even more. That was my colleague. She told me that she would consider to break up with him if she ran out of ways.

I know they have been going out for nearly a year and they are both the type of people who are going for marriages. I don’t think her husband realized the severity of it. As I was worried about their relationship, I got a phone from her boyfriend. He told me that he wanted to surprise her girlfriend by having a threesome with me, since she told him that she wanted to have threesome with me if it’s possible. I never thought I would be the one she picked, but she was a nice person. I wouldn’t mind having a couples dating with her. I said yes.

He really had a plan going on in his mind. He said he would pick me up from work when the day comes. Then we would show up at her door and surprise her. She would understand it as soon as she saw me. As expected, she was very surprised by us. That night, we had several nice threesome hookups together.

A month later, they got married. If it weren’t that threesome, I don’t know what the result will be. Maybe they will get married anyway. But I think being a swinger couple and living a swinger lifestyle is much more fun than being monogamous. It’s just my own opinion.

Don’t have threesome with your close friend

When it comes to tinder threesome, I got a lot of advice from my swinger single friends or swinger couples, they told me that never have threesome with your friends, especially close friends or besties. I never took it seriously, because I don’t have that chance. I was in an unhappy marriage back then. There was no way for me to share a bed with my husband, let alone having a threesome together. So when they told me this, I just let the words out from my right ear after they came in through my left ear. I never thought of trying a threesome hookup with someone, because I don’t have the energy to. I was busy with getting a divorce with my husband and busy with worrying about my future.

I was really depressed back then, so when my close friend Lily asked me to have a threesome hookup with her and her husband, I said yes without thinking too much. I just thought that I couldn’t be any worse than it already was. I could definitely use some fun. What is the big deal? It just lovemaking with two people. We were very familiar with each other. They used to find their threesome partners on tinder for threesome dating apps, but this time they wanted to try it with friend and they were also hoping to cheer me up by having a threesome together. After all, being single means you can do anything you want without anyone’s permission.

That night, I was invited to their house. After having dinner, we jumped right into the bed and had a threesome together. The threesomes were nice and dreamy. It was more pleasurable than monogamous bedding routine. As a swinger newbie, they were really generous to me. I got to be in the limelight during the whole process. However, I didn’t see what was coming.

The day after threesome, we woke up just like every plain morning. After having breakfast, I went to work. Usually, I would come to their house once a week just for some small talk. That week, I came, but there was no small talk, just plain flirting. I could really use some talk, because I just had a rough fight with my husband about the properties. Pure friendship became an explicit relationship with sexual desire. We had another threesome that night, which was fine, but I would prefer some comfort with words.

From then on, every time I went to their house looking for conversation, we would always end up having threesome hookups and I got no conversation. I felt like a regular threesome companion for them. Our relationship just changed and there is no way going back and it is still changing to a pure sensual one. There are less and less conversation, but more and more carnal desire. I would choose other wise if a second chance is given. I would never have threesome with them.